A woman who is dating and going through a divorce at the same time is dealing with two potentially complicated relationships, where one is ending and one is just beginning.Dating such a woman will require some patience as she sorts out her feelings about the end of her marriage.Jim works for a family business and about a year and half ago separated from his wife.About six months ago, right before we started seeing one another, he filed for divorce.If you dont allow yourself to work through your pain and learn the lessons that it can teach you, you won’t be the best partner to someone else.
Jim is a guy and isn’t perfect at everything, and neither am I perfect.Im getting very anxious now that the divorce is getting rough, he is mentally all over the show that when its all over that things are going to change and I would have wasted my time. There are so many negative things out there about this and just for the record I was not around when they separated, I had nothing to do with it.I realise I am taking a risk on him by sticking with him, and I guess that if I want him then I have to, without even asking for much in return because anything that I might need in a relationship is put on hold while this divorce stuff goes on, and then I just wonder if I am just a fool. I also know that others in my situation can, like me, feel second best.Here's a tip: Don't date a woman going through a divorce. James Roland is the editor of a monthly health publication that has approximately 75,000 subscribers in the United States and Canada.